|Born||In 290 AC|
|Book(s)|| A Game of Thrones (appears)|
A Clash of Kings (appears)
A Storm of Swords (appears)
A Feast for Crows (mentioned)
A Dance with Dragons (mentioned)
A Game of Thrones
A Clash of Kings
Elmar squires for Lord Roose Bolton and is part of his army when it takes Harrenhal. It is at Harrenhal that Elmar learns that his betrothal is called off. Unbeknownst to him, his princess, Arya, is standing before him.
A Storm of Swords
When news reaches the Twins of King Robb Stark's marriage to Jeyne Westerling, Lord Walder breaks all remaining marriage contracts with House Stark, ending Elmar's marriage promise to Arya. Elmar is the cupbearer when Roose hosts Ser Jaime Lannister and Brienne of Tarth at Harrenhal.